Your lovers always said you were paranoid. You were imagining things. You were irrational, crazy, overreacting.
But when the plain truth came out, everything you feared was actually true. Your lovers weren't as trustworthy as you thought. Clandestine flirtations, or worse, outright infidelities, occurred right under your nose. You knew it in your heart, but tried to deny it, and the result was a war between your heart and mind that had you quite perplexed and upset. But, is it possible you set this up right from the very start? You got involved too quickly, and you certainly got physical without thinking first. Frequently you'd get into a situation where you and your lover were quibbling nonstop, both of you unwilling to compromise and cooperate. The answer lies within you. The lovers you choose might never be those cozy, sit-by-the-fire-and-purr types. You may never get a calm, content connection. But who wants calm when you can have fire and excitement? Embrace the tumult. Let go of your desires to control.