You're usually the calm, cool, collected one who sidles through life confidently, while those around you are knocked over by your magnetism and power. But something about your love life puts you at a disadvantage. You keep choosing spiritual, ephemeral lovers whose feet barely touch the ground.
Then you'd start to feel almost as if you were addicted to the affection you got, particularly since you never got quite enough of it. You always felt like your lovers were holding out on you. You felt hungry, like you never got quite enough to eat. And worst of all, your lovers were so 'spiritual' that they weren't concerned with your lack of satisfaction.The answer to your conundrum lies in your past. Who in your history had a manner similar to this? Who withheld physical affection from you? Who taught you to beg for crumbs and scrabble for love? Think carefully, because solving this riddle will put you on an easier path for the rest of your life. It's time to stop acting out old psychodramas from your past. It's time to lay your ghosts to rest. And once you manage to get past the whiny/begging pattern you're locked in, your ideal lover is apt to find you a lot more attractive.