When you got together with your previous partners, you were seriously attracted to the seriousness you intuited in them. They were your match on an intellectual level, and you felt they could go the long haul with you. And you chose well; indeed, your sweeties were stable and trustworthy.
But it didn't seem like you were having a lot of fun. In fact, the more you tried to have fun, the more serious they got! The problem was that you were trying to mold your lover into someone who was, well, just like you. Though you always have big plans, your execution's a little lax. You prefer to dream the day away on the couch rather than actually get up and go. And it bugged you madly that your sweeties were always calling attention to this fact. Notice that they're not around anymore, and you're still spinning days away on that couch.Face it: Even though you don't like to be kicked in the tush, it still sends you in the direction you know you should be going. It just isn't as fun as you'd like. If you want to stay where you are, keep grousing. If you want to improve, buckle down instead. Don't try to sabotage your ideal lover's hardworking nature; instead, allow their industry to spur your industrious side. It'll bring you nothing but good in the long run.