Your needle's stuck in a groove, and it's been driving you crazy. You have the same conversations over and over with your lovers; the same fights, the same problems. Why can't you solve your personal issues and just move forward?
The answer lies within your past, and how it feeds into all of your relationships. Either you, or your past partners, or both, have struggled with addictions or other unhealthy behavior patterns; in fact, you may still be struggling. Whatever it is that haunted your past has intruded upon your relationships. Is it your tendency to choose partners and friends who are bad for you? There's something unhealthy at work here, and you don't feel entirely in control. The very aspects of your past partners that you once admired and enjoyed were the same ones that drove you away. You lost tolerance for them. You became impatient. You felt you were stuck in a rut. For future success, you need to work on the art of compromise. No matter how perfect your ideal partner, you'll never agree on everything, nor will the ghosts of your past ever be put to rest. But if you can stop living life while looking in your rearview mirror, you are well-placed to drive down the road of love more effectively.