With your eyes always on the straight and narrow path, you may have been oblivious to many opportunities that have passed you by, not least in the arena of love. Successful relationships often require that first leap of faith, the ability to step out of your normal day-to-day routine in order to make contact, establish a connection and develop the romance. In the past, this has ruffled your feathers more than you were able to tolerate.
The result of your devotion to the tried-and-true has been a noticeable dearth of romance, and you're ready to move beyond that now. You've idealized your partner so many times that it's really not necessary to create any type of list of the qualities of your ideal lover. The list is already there. In fact, if anything, you should drag it out and make some realistic adjustments to it. It's important that you hook up with someone you respect, but also someone who looks up to you as well, and who will support you when you want to indulge yourself a little bit. Self-indulgence always makes you feel a little guilty, but it's something we all need from time to time!