The activities that you indulge in for your own pleasure often distract you from your true life path, and this includes at least some of your relationships. You have a loving and passionate nature, and truly enjoy being here on Planet Earth, but you may focus so much on fulfilling your own appetites and indulging your sense of pleasure that you forget completely that you've got a job to do here. When that small inner voice pipes up from time to time, you cock you head, give a feeble attempt to listen, and then get right back to your massage or dessert.
Eventually your soul, in an attempt to get your attention, may create a crisis that results from overindulgence. The purpose of this is not to punish you, but to turn your attention to the truly important matters in life. You are prone to leaping into relationships without considering the long-term consequences, telling yourself that everything will work out fine in the end. You may become dependent upon another for love, pleasure or money, thereby further distracting yourself from developing the qualities that will lead to maturity and the fulfillment of karma, particularly as it relates to your relationships.