It seems to you that no matter how hard you work, no matter how responsible you try to be, no matter how dedicated you are, something always seems to get in the way of accomplishing the goals you set out for yourself. It's very frustrating, and sooner or later you arrive at the point of thinking, 'Why try anything anyway? Nothing ever works out for me!' Don't stay in this unfortunate spot for long, because it's not true.
The trick here is to see that it's not outer circumstances that create problems for you; those problems originate from within yourself. Oh, you can blame your father, or your boss, or the government, but that will only work for so long. The key to overcoming your inner frustration is to plan carefully, work hard, and don't permit yourself to be overwhelmed by obstacles. Don't give up when the going gets a little tough. Instead, take a deep breath, and keep on going. Sooner rather than later, you'll find that your strength and endurance improve, that you can overcome difficulties, and that in fact, you are a stronger person for having overcome them.