Oooh, was your lover ever hot. Your friends were all so jealous of you. How ever did you bag such a magnetic, sexy specimen?
You were in awe yourself, so attracted that you could barely think -- and there was the rub. All your life you had been able to wrap lovers around your little finger with your sultry and seductive power, but this time you found a sweetie who wouldn't let you have the upper hand. You were the one waiting around for phone calls. You let your lover decide where to go, and when, and how. You even kept silent rather than expressing any negative feelings, for fear your lover would run the other direction. Ouch! Didn't it feel awful to be so squelched?Here's a little secret -- as much as your lover seemed to want to control you, giving all your power away made your sweetie view you with contempt, not adoration. You needed to marshal your confidence and fight back. Ask for what you wanted. Demand equal time and equal power. Winning a few battles, in this case, was the only way you could ultimately have won the war. And next time, don't cave in so fast. You've plenty to offer a partner, and you demand respect.