You landed in one of those fairy tale relationships, but not in the good way. You bought the myth of Love at First Sight; hook, line and sinker. But there was no room for reality in your dream world.
You were in love with love, not with your lover at all. In fact, you barely had an idea of who your lover really was. You projected your dreams and fantasies onto a blank surface; what you thought you loved was only your own false vision. Somewhere in the back of your mind you knew that you were living in a fantasy, but you had your eyes closed. You thought that if you just kept on dancing maybe the music would never stop. Sorry, but it was not that easy, and cracks appeared in the facade. You started to have arguments, big and little, more often, and you were often blindsided by what your lover said and did. However, the news needn't have been all bad. You and your partner were actually a beautiful match for each other, with much potential for growth in the relationship and as individuals. It was just going to take a lot more work before you hit the promised land. And together, hard work was not your forte.