Your lover was the ocean, and you were helplessly swept away by the waves. You were usually one to handle your affairs with a light, sure touch. Others swooned or wept in your wake, but you were always the one on top, confident, smiling.
This particular person, however, had flipped your switch but good. You were drawn to your sweetie right from the start. You ignored your good sense and went too far, too fast. Sometimes you felt helpless in the grip of a towering passion. Yet your lover wasn't similarly enthralled. Did you suspect infidelity? Did strangers call your house and hang up when you answered? Was your lover absent for unusual lengths of time?You feared all was lost, but is did not have to be so. If you wished to stay where you were, you would have had to work harder than you ever had before. This lover would never dance to your tune; instead, you needed to learn how to play it cool and not reveal how affected you were by your lover's foibles. This was a bird who would not sing in your cage -- but if you had let it fly free, and it may have come back to you.