It felt like you and your partner were out of sync. Casually tossed-off remarks turned into major fights; small issues loomed between you as if they were large ones. The problem at the root of it all was that you and your lover had a hard time communicating with each other.
You weren't a big fan of long, rambling talks about your relationship. You preferred to spend your time relaxing and having fun, letting the chips fall where they may. But your partner was keen on analyzing your problems, pinning them down, discussing them (to death, in your opinion). You often felt trapped by all the chatter. Why couldn't you just enjoy yourselves?But there was a method to your partner's madness -- you shouldn't have let childish petulance keep you from advancing in your relationship. No, it was not fun to have long, meaningful talks about your differences, but through them you would have learned to make compromises. Both you and your sweetie could have had each other's best interests in mind. Working from that standpoint you soon would have seen eye-to-eye; a good reminder for the future.