That thunderous noise you heard was the sound of two completely opposite sets of opinion clashing. You valued all that was ephemeral and energizing -- freedom, flirtation, independence. There was nothing you liked more than waking up in your own bed with time to spend just as you wished and a lover who was willing to roll with the punches and make themselves scarce when you were not in the mood.
But the one you chose was not that lover. The Sun in your orbit craved more stability and security. Since you were so mercurial and reckless, stability was in short supply, so your lover resorted to demanding and blustering and ordering rather than simply loving you. You responded to these authoritarian tactics by rebelling further, and the whole thing became a great big mess.How could you have broken the cycle? The two of you would have had to come to an agreement as to how much time you'd spend together, and where, and doing what. Your freewheeling ways were over. You would have had to learn to adhere to a schedule, even a loose one. Your lover would have provided you with the space you needed if there was security, so you had to give that back in turn. Your desires were unreasonable, but you weren't willing to put them aside -- and that's going to be necessary if you are ever to achieve a successful relationship.