You needed to slow down. You were racing along with too little thought to where you would ultimately end up. You were so involved with the here and now that you were not thinking enough about things to come.
And you were apt to be ruled by your emotions rather than your intellect, an impetuousness that affected your love relationship. You were mighty hard to live with, weren't you? Difficult to please, you sulked when you could have been making nice, you found fault with your lover when things should have been going just fine. Yep, you really put your relationship and your lover under a microscope, but what you should have been doing was some self-examination. Unresolved issues kept you dissatisfied. You were repeating a psychodrama from your past, and you cast your lover in a role of your choosing. There could have been a lot there to love if you could have just laid off a little. It is time to unbend. Cast yourself free from your old ways and look at your relationships anew, and your good fortune will return.