A fly on the wall of your love relationship would have no idea why either of you continued on. You viewed your lover as lazy, arrogant and self-indulgent; your lover looked at you as a negative ol' killjoy. Neither of you were shy about sharing those viewpoints, either.
Each of you tried to play the part of the stern adult, chastising the wayward child. It was fun to feel so above it all, but you were both so busy criticizing each other that you couldn't see your own role in your problems. You complained and you kvetched, but nothing got solved. You were sick of being stuck in the same old rut!Some changes needed to be made if you wanted this to work out. Instead, you kept banging on the same doors, and got the same answer. You should have tried shaking things up a little. Changed your attitudes, and tried taking some direction from your mate. Loosened up. Laughed. Put work off, and just had fun. You may have been surprised at how much you enjoyed yourself -- and how that enjoyment translated into a sweeter, more harmonious connection between you and your mate. Lighten up a little and let the joy of love flow through you. Suddenly you're a lot more attractive.