Your pairing had an edgy yin-yang aspect to it. You were the powerful aggressor, driven to do and be and control. Your mate, on the other hand, was receptive and malleable, attuned towards the sensual pleasures of life.
Your mate was always bugging you to slow down a little -- stay awhile, honey, what are you rushing off to do? You felt henpecked by the demands and withheld affection, truly a cruel blow against a partner to whom love was everything. Intensity and passion ruled your relationship. You had frequent arguments -- and very pleasurable make-up sessions, followed by arguments on the exact same issues as before. It was tiring, and you finally got off the merry-go-round.You were going nowhere and you knew it. You've never found a partner who attracted you this strongly, a lover who could keep up with you on every level. So you were forced to be a bit more social, more sensual. If you had given in it would have brought a much-needed balance to your life, one that would have done you good in the long run once you'd stopped resisting. Softening up your hard edges will create a more ideal climate for successful relationships -- if that's what you want.