One of you had a jealous streak, and it caused real problems between you. As time went on, it became a lot less fun to be together. How could it have been fun, when there were questions and suspicions, time to be accounted for, and mistrust rather than affection and ease?
Much of the problem could be laid at your feet. You seemed to take an almost perverse pleasure in punishing your lover. For a past misdeed? For daring to challenge your authority? The reason was unclear, but it acted as an unconscious force on every move you made, causing you to make decisions solely to hurt your lover rather than choosing the best course of action.But it did not all have to be bad news. The pair of you did have an intense relationship, in good ways as well as bad. Together you could have accomplished much, if you had viewed yourselves as a team rather than dueling enemies. If you had wanted this to work, you were going to need to try pairing up on a mutual goal. Once you had pooled your prodigious energies, you'd have found you could stay focused and work together seamlessly, rather than letting your emotions pull you apart. The result would have been an easier life for both of you.