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No squares

Few Challenges Equaled Little Growth

Kelli Fox

The two of you had an interesting situation. Certain planetary connections between two people, like squares, can cause stress, tension and disagreements in their relationship. The funny thing is, these stressful connections can also be the source of a lot of personal growth, because being faced with a problem can force you to deal with it, once and for all.

Except you two didn't have any stressful squares between you -- zip, zilch, zero! This was both good news and bad news. The good news was, there was probably very little tension between you. Everything was just smooth sailing; you got along great, there was never any disagreement and you felt like the best of friends. But with all that good stuff came some not-so-good.First of all, with no healthy tension to spice things up, things got a little dull between you (yawn). Second, you might have thought everything was just fine, so you ignored any red flags that popped up, indicating problems. Every couple has issues, but when difficulties arose between you two, you may not have known how to cope. Thirdly, and maybe most importantly, neither of you were particularly challenged to grow in this relationship -- not such a good thing, since relationships are usually a major catalyst for personal evolution. If you were looking for a peaceful and, well, predictable connection, one that didn't bring strife or disruption to your life -- a relationship where you could just keep on keeping on, then this pairing would have been a good one for you. If not, maybe this wasn't the best connection for either of you.

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