Your relationship just didn't quite make it, huh? You couldn't get comfortable, couldn't move ahead smoothly, couldn't seem to see eye-to-eye with your lover. The main problem was that there was a disconnect between your intellect and your emotions.
You chose this lover in haste. And, though you had a good connection, there were major gulfs between you. It could be that there was some mismatch in beliefs, or ambitions -- your partner may have been focused on success and material objects, you may be have been more interested in spiritual pursuits. Regardless of what the disagreement was, it caused a distance between you that you were only able to ignore for a while. As time went on things got worse, not better.Remaining flexible was the key to enduring the hard times. Sometimes you won out, sometimes your partner's way prevailed. You had to be willing to sacrifice something in order to make things work, as did your mate. It was not an easy path you trod, but had there been enough there to make the work worthwhile, you'd both have been bettered by the trials since there was a happy medium between the polar extremes you were each taking up.