Ouch! Did you have to be so callous? You turned your confident lover into a whipped puppy with your here-today, gone-tomorrow affections.
One minute you were passionately connected, the next you were itching to get out there and flirt, always with one question tickling your brain: Could you do better? Sure you could, you could always do better, but how many relationships are you going to chew through with your noncommittal attitude? It's fun to fall in love all right, but if you keep whipping through partners every time you get a little bored, you're going to find you've been feeding yourself junk food of the heart.What was needed in this particular relationship was some frank and honest communication. Just what were you looking for in this hookup? How much time were you willing to dedicate to your mate? What level of fidelity did you expect, and were you willing to return? These were the kinds of issues that needed to be faced squarely if you were to walk on together. Just hoping that things would work out on their own didn't cut it anymore. If you ever hope to iron out the disparity between your desires and your lover's expectations you'll have to speak up.