Did you bother to look before you leapt into your lover's arms? Or did you just follow your heart and your foolish, fierce emotions? There was a lot that drew you to your lover, including the incendiary passion you felt in each other's arms.
But you were equally repulsed by your lover's unpredictable behavior. You were unable to get the commitment you sought. Heck, you're still not even sure if you ever truly knew your lover. Sometimes you sensed an unfathomable distance between you. Was that love you were feeling, or simply an infatuation that couldn't last?This was not one of those loves that was cozy and sweet, like a cat curled up by a fireplace. Rather, you grasped on to a live wire. You were faced with a choice -- you could keep holding on, enjoying all that was electric and exciting and thrilling about your pairing; or you could let go and relax into a quieter, easier existence. If you had chosen the former, you would have had to learn to ask fewer questions, to demand less, to ride out changes and tumult rather than expecting or asking for security. It might have been an amazing ride -- if you'd had the stomach for all those ups and downs.