Your lover was one spicy meatball. Others envied your relationship, and they should have, because what you had was something pretty hot. You were equally attuned towards the pleasures of the flesh: sensual, lusty, sexy idylls could occur in the morning, noon, or night.
Just being next to your lover was a delicious dream, and as you snuggled and drowsed you were in heaven. Out of the bedroom, though, things weren't as rosy. You may have shared many goals and interests, but you just weren't as comfortable as you should have been at that point of your relationship. You couldn't relax and let go. Your partner was reluctant to commit. Relaxation was the key to keeping this commitment. Though your personal tendency was to move, to do, to go, your love relationship was a fruit on the vine that just needed a bit of ripening. Did you always have to be in such a hurry? You should have kept a lid on your rampaging ambition for once, and just enjoyed what you had. You needed to be in the moment. Not plan ahead; instead, just think about the moment you were in. The friction between you would have evaporated if you could have started a chain reaction: The answer was to love, to bask, to laugh, and to delight in what you had instead of chafing. It's a good thing to keep in mind for your next love affair.