It's no use fitting a square peg into a round hole, they say, but that didn't stop you from trying to nitpick your lover into submission. You were the picture of aggression and energy. That's usually a good thing, but in this case your drive went awry.
Your irresistible force came up against an immovable object: your stern, sexy, stubborn love. You were convinced you could change your sweetie into just the person you wanted to be with, but couldn't you see that all your demands were getting you nowhere? Rather than comply with your directives, your lover pulled away. You viewed this retreat as a challenge, and pushed harder. And thus a cycle was set up, where the more you chased the further away your lover ran.You could have cooled your jets a little. Backed off. Given your lover a break. Your way was not THE way, and you didn't know it all. Maybe if, in the future, you spend a bit more time trying to understand the way your lover does things, rather than demanding everything be your way, you can channel some of your extra energy into fun and passion rather than draining it all away with anger.