There was something odd there, something unhealthy beneath the surface. Were you or your lover dealing with issues around addictions? Was one of you being unfaithful to the other?
Were problems from the past making themselves known? There was something going on, but it was insubstantial, difficult to grasp and see -- it could be that you were not looking honestly at your problems, that you were ignoring what you saw and just blithely focusing on day-to-day issues. You needed to look a little deeper. Was there something your lover was telling you in actions, but not words? It was difficult for you, the straight-ahead communicator, to read signs and vibes, but if this was going to work, you were going to have to learn, and fast, because things were going wrong between you and your sweetie.When you figured out a problem, it was best to face it squarely. Had you brought it out into the light, it wouldn't have seemed so mysterious and looming. You needed to ask questions. Listen to the answers. It's not that your lover meant to withhold information, it's just that you were so intimidating at times. Your problems weren't insurmountable, just difficult -- and figuring out what you had to work with needed to be your first step.