You moved through this relationship like a lumbering bear, rather than a graceful lover. You viewed your partner as oversensitive, but the truth was that there was something behind your partner's pleas for gentleness. You acted too quickly, often choosing to do what was expedient rather than what was right.
You ignored the emotional component of your life, preferring to bury your emotions in actions. You slapped Band-Aids on problems rather than working for a true solution. At least you were sensitive enough to see the truth. You genuinely didn't mean harm; it's just that your lover seemed more concerned with good living than getting ahead, and that bugged you. You may also have felt jealous of the many who fell under your sexy partner's spell -- you needed to beware your jealousy, because it gave your partner a weapon to use against you. Instead, the key was to talk before you acted, and think before you talked. You needed to slow down a little. What's the good in driving through life so quickly that you don't have time to stop along the way and enjoy yourself? There is so much here to savor if you only let yourself.