This was an intense connection, but not an easy one. You shared a certain power and magnetism, but it manifested itself in different ways. You were the overt one, forcefully reaching for what you wanted.
Your partner was more secretive and controlled, a Machiavellian schemer if truth be told. This mismatch between you always seemed to put you on the disadvantage; while you were honest about your aims and feelings, your mate seemed to comply with you until the moment when you realized you had played right into your lover's hands and were being controlled like a puppet. That's when you turned on your mate with snarls, perhaps even violence -- this was an explosive combination!But you couldn't ask your partner to be any different. This was just their nature. Instead, if you had wanted this to work, you were going to have to be a little more savvy about always wearing your heart on your sleeve. Maybe it was time for you to learn how to play it cool a little. Your lover wouldn't have been able to tweak your insecurities so expertly if you didn't display them. You had to tune into your own goals, shift your energies towards taking care of yourself. Your partner would have appreciated you more when you were a little less available. But if playing this type of game wasn't for you, then you are better off apart. Hopefully your next hookup won't be quite so stressful.