Is He Into You? Learn the Secret Signals of a Cancer Man

Kelli Fox
Is He Into You? Learn the Secret Signals of a Cancer Man

Sometimes it can be hard to tell whether your crush is crushing back on you. After all, many men are notoriously closed-lipped about their feelings, especially when it comes to affairs of the heart. But if you know his Zodiac sign, you have an important key to understanding not just his personality, but his behavior — and his desire nature. Since each Sun sign expresses attraction in its own ways, every man sends out different, individual signals that are unique to his sign. Read your guy’s sign to unlock the mystery of whether or not he’s into you.

Cancer can be difficult to read on lots of levels, including a romantic one. This deeply emotional sign needs to feel safe and secure before he can let his heart be known to the one he admires. And it doesn’t help that the sign of the Crab is famously moody! So figuring out whether he’s into you is about interpreting his actions accurately — namely, his urge to protect what he cares about most. Cancer men show their interest by taking care of the object of their desires, which can manifest in many different ways. Behaviors that might seem a bit patronizing or even overbearing — insisting on walking you to your car, for example, or admonishing you not to lift that heavy box — are actually his attempt to keep you safe. When he makes it clear that he wants to make sure you’re well protected, that’s when you know you truly matter to your Cancer guy.

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  1. Jade Lewis on June 22, 2017 at 1:35 am

    My cancer friend told me he’s way too busy for a relationship, and respects me too much for anything else. He’s a very busy attorney. Is there any hope for a relationship later on or should I move on?

    • Nikki on October 3, 2017 at 12:05 pm

      Jade, it has been a few months; has anything changed? I am falling for a friend of mine that is a Cancer man and it is so hard to read these men. I have tried to show him that I like him beyond friendship and we spend time together but he still hasn’t opened up to me completely. Things seemed to change between us about a year ago and as time has gone on, we have gotten closer. From what I understand, it takes A LOT of time and patience to have a relationship with them, but it is worth it. Best wishes to you.

      • Jade on October 22, 2017 at 11:36 pm

        Hi Nikki! In September he contacted me and I’ve spent the night with him twice in the last month. And yes the sex was amazing!! But unfortunately no change. I told him I know he cares about me, but I didn’t understand what was keeping him from me. No response. Today I told him that it hurts like hell realizing you mean nothing to someone that you care about so much. Again no response. So after 9 hours I sent a text saying goodnight, and he responded immediately good night. He’s the only man that I truly loved. I’m trying to be patient because I love him, and I know he’s a good man. I guess I’m afraid of being hurt. But he’s always there when I need him.

        • J on November 14, 2017 at 4:26 pm

          How are things going? I’m in a similar situation.

          • Jade on November 15, 2017 at 2:15 am

            No change, I’m going to try my best to be patient. And in the process just work on myself. No matter what I know we will always be friends. It’s really hard for me too move on because he’s such an amazing man. He told me that he’s emotionally unavailable.

          • p on November 15, 2017 at 11:36 am

            If you are having sex and nothing more then he has no emotional attachment to you. Us cancers are notorious for this. If we are truly into someone we approach sex slowly because it solidifies our feelings. We don’t like to be hurt. You should move on.

  2. M on November 20, 2017 at 8:51 am

    Hey ..i met this guy over Tinder …we chatted for a few weeks before we met up. We had two dates and on the second day we slept with each other. he was sweet and caring . Msged me almost every day, but then a few days after our second date he changed. He wasnt all that communicative. Stop msg and went all quiet on me. When i told him i didnt appreciate it he said he needed to be quiet. I told him i wont msg him again as i dint want to msg someone who wasnt wiling to be spoken to. Also that when he reads and ignores my msgs i don like it. its been a week and he hasnt msg me back. Should i msg him / wait for him to make the first move/ forget him and move on. Any advice at this point of time would be appreciated

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