Your relationship looks so good on paper! You both have a relaxed, sensual way about you, a zest for life, an appealing joie de vivre. But on the other hand, your values are dissonant, as are your tastes.
One of you goes for the quiet and elegant, the other for the raucous and brash, a difference that's particularly acute around the expression of public affection -- which one of you is all over the other in public? It feels like you can't relax together; all the while little bursts of friction keep bubbling up and disturbing the peace. You view your lover as impossibly vain -- and surprise, that's the exact same complaint you hear back! And it's a small thing, but you really can't abide the way it takes your sweetie hours and hours to get ready to go to just about any social event. Luckily, all is not lost. These problems are really fairly unimportant in the grand scheme of things. You two like each other, right? So stop rubbing each other the wrong way. Make like a second grader and cooperate. Share more. Don't do the stuff that drives your lover mad. There's a lot here to love.