Mmmm, yummy. Your relationship is the kind of warm place puppies like to curl up in. Both you and your sweetie are kindhearted and loving, sensual and sexy.
Other people envy what you've got. But at the same time, there are cracks on the inside of your cocoon that don't show from the outside. You can be a bit of a stomper and a door-slammer -- and you've never been known for your fidelity. Think about it: if you actually have to set up rules for what's cheating and what's not, you're skirting close to a dangerous line. Your lover, on the other hand, can be self-righteous, vain, and impulsive. In a lot of ways, you rub each other the wrong way, picking stupid fights with each other, viewing each other's flaws with contempt. The answer lies in good old-fashioned hard work. Roll up your sleeves and schedule some time to work on your issues. Actual changes in your habits and behaviors are needed this time, not just a whole lot of hot air and empty promises. The reward for the work will be a deepened connection that'll grow with time. The penalty for doing nothing will be a crash and burn.