Oooh, is your lover ever hot. Your friends are all jealous of you. How ever did you bag such a magnetic, sexy specimen?
You're in awe yourself, so attracted that you can barely think -- and there's the rub. All your life you've been able to wrap lovers around your little finger with your sultry and seductive power, but this time you've found a sweetie who won't let you have the upper hand. You're waiting around for phone calls. You're letting your lover decide where you go, and when, and how. You're even keeping silent rather than expressing any negative feelings, for fear of your lover running in the other direction. Ouch! Doesn't it feel awful to be so squelched -- even if it's you who's doing the squelching?Here's a little secret -- as much as your lover seems to want to control you, giving all your power away will soon make your sweetie view you with contempt, not adoration. Marshall your confidence and fight back. Ask for what you want. Demand equal time and equal power. In this case, winning a few battles is the only way you can ultimately win the war.