Your partner walks through life oozing power and intensity; a potent combination that leaves you helpless in its wake. Notice the choice of words: helpless. You're dazzled and impressed by your lover, to be sure, but most of all you feel curiously weak.
You let your lover make all the decisions. You can't stand up for yourself. You feel more like a wuss than you ever have before, and you can't see any way out. Even worse, your lover seems to delight in having the upper hand. You've always been the one to choose when, where and how you'll see those enchanted by your charms, but in this relationship you're the one waiting by the phone. You're so confused about your partner's feelings and intentions that you've even started uttering those dreaded four words: what are you thinking? If you want to sustain your connection, you're going to have to go about it more cleverly. Your partner is committed to head games, so play a few yourself. Stop reacting to your lover's obvious manipulations. Stay cool. Just enjoy yourself. Your lover will be irresistibly attracted by your confidence, and you'll stop feeling like an also-ran.