It was love at first sight for you -- but unfortunately, you haven't progressed much beyond those first swoony strains of love. Do you really know the one who claims your heart? Oh, you have ideas, all right, and hopes, and fantasies.
What you don't have is a firm grasp on reality. Your love relationship is all heated words and sweet dreams, but you've never had the conversations that matter: Where are we going together? What do you want from this relationship? How do you really feel about me? You'd better start asking your lover these types of questions before you get in any deeper, because you're in the driver's seat and you don't even know where you're going. There's a lot of hard work in front of you before you get where you want to go. First and foremost, you must look at your relationship with your intellect, not your emotions. Have you grabbed yourself a sweetie who's good for you, who wants the same things, who's dependable and loving? If so, hang on and prepare to go deeper. If not -- well, you're going to have to look elsewhere for satisfaction.