It feels like you and your partner are out of sync. Casually tossed-off remarks turn into major fights; small issues loom between you as if they were large ones. The problem at the root of it all is that you and your lover have a hard time communicating with each other.
You aren't a big fan of long, rambling talks about your relationship. You'd rather spend your time relaxing and having fun, letting the chips fall where they may. But your partner is keen on analyzing your problems, pinning them down, discussing them (to death, in your opinion). You often feel trapped by all the chatter. Why can't you just enjoy yourselves?But there's a method to your partner's madness -- don't let childish petulance keep you from advancing in your relationship. No, it's no fun to have long, meaningful talks about your differences, but through them you'll learn to make compromises. Luckily, both you and your sweetie have each other's best interests in mind. Work from that standpoint and you'll soon see eye-to-eye.