This relationship is certainly an odd duck. Did you two come together out of love, or was there more to it? Aspects in your pairing point out a relationship that is forced, rather than natural.
Is one of you in it for the money? Were you paired up by family, or is one of you trying to get something from the other? Putting this aside, this is not a relationship that seems to unfold naturally. You do not have much in common, since you are attuned to relationships with people and your social life, and your partner's attentions are mired in the workaday world. Your sweetie no doubt views you as rather self-indulgent, lazy and flighty; while you find your mate nitpicky and rather cold. You find it difficult to be affectionate with your mate and feel resentful of being held to certain standards. On the other hand, your partner can bring out much good in you. Inside you is a person that can act with verve and power, a person you've allowed to loaf beneath your fun-loving exterior. Permit your partner to activate this facet of your personality and you'll become much more, both together and within yourself.