Oooh! It burns you, being treated like a kid. You spent too much on this or that, you're too indulgent, you're too spoiled, blah blah blah.
Your lover works more, does more and is incredibly self-righteous about it. You always suffer in comparison. But really, who asked your lover to be such a martyr? Life is for living, you think, and you're having such a wonderful time you don't want to slow down. But how can you be indulging yourself so much when your lover's not along for the ride? It's almost cruel to be so focused on your own fun when your sweetie's not having much fun at all.Sorry, but you're going to have to rein it in a bit. You're not the only one in this relationship, and everything can't be your way all the time. If your sweetie favors evenings at home in front of the TV and you're out all the time, then compromise -- stay home a few nights. Toss your lover a bone. After all, you're cherished and adored, a position oh so many people would like to be in. Don't selfishly attend to your own needs and leave your lover in the lurch. A change on your part will produce a change from others.