Like a supernova, your relationship is hot, hot, hot -- but tends to burn itself out. The two of you are either on or off, hot or cold, with each of you fluctuating through perverse cycles. It's likely that your lover's been pressuring you for a commitment, wanting to know your intentions.
But how can you communicate what you're after when you're not even sure yourself. You operate on your emotions, living in the moment. If you want to see your lover you pop in; when you want some alone time you disappear. This has made your lover insecure, and the response is to cling, a restriction that sets a vicious cycle into motion.Your rebellious streak may spell doom for this relationship, as it has for so many of your past ones. But don't be so quick to throw this one on the ash heap. You've found a lover who is stable and true, kindhearted and loving. That's a rare treasure, and one that should be valued. Try to break your patterns. Force yourself to stay when you want to go, hold on instead of pushing away. Your lover will blossom with your attentions, so provide them -- and then bask in the sweet, tender love you receive.