There's a breathless aspect to your relationship. It's exciting but it also tends to exhaust you. The two of you are always busy in some way -- immersed in a vivid social life?
Rushing around getting stuff done? Whatever the hurry-scurry is, it's impacting negatively on your love relationship. One of you is likely harassing the other for a commitment, while the other is acting like a tomato seed on the cutting board: slipping and sliding away the more pressure is applied. Your lover is intimidated by you; your unorthodox opinions and actions are threatening to your lover's sense of propriety. Never one to knuckle under to criticism, you respond by being still more outrageous.The key to maintaining your connection is to channel your energies in positive ways. Instead of doing things intended to tweak your lover's values, throw yourself into a project both you and your partner will adore. Something career related? A grand and glorious trip to an exotic land? A charitable pursuit? Whatever it is, this new interest will focus you both on the sparks between you rather than your differences. And there are plenty of sparks to focus on.