You find this love so difficult to grab onto, do you not? There were other lovers you managed to wrap around your little finger, blessed as you are with a magnetism and confidence that convinces others you're always in control. But for some reason you feel you've lost your way with your current lover.
You can't seem to understand each other; it's like you don't speak the same language. You may even be finding your lover harder to pin down in the day-to-day sense. Has your phone been ringing less and less? Are you spending more time at home alone waiting for something to happen? It's time to take a good hard look at your love relationship. You chose yourself a sweetie who's creative and sweet, tender and dreamy. So don't expect a partner with a fiery drive to match your own. Your lover may be trying to tell you something that you're not willing to hear. Don't expect every message to be in words -- sometimes actions can tell you much more. Learn to listen to what your lover is not saying, and you have a better chance of hanging on to this shifty, drifting love.