It's lucky for you that you and your mate can laugh, both at each other and at yourselves. That's a strong plus in a relationship that is sometimes challenging. You're so impressed with your mate, and rightly so.
Your lover is generous to a fault, stately, wise, and larger than life. You tend to be just a bit egotistic, and your sweetie helps keep you grounded and sane, even as you encourage each other to dream big and go after what you want. But it seems at times that you're at cross purposes. Fate throws obstacles in your way, or each of you makes choices that create chaos and friction. You get annoyed with each other too easily, each accusing the other of being self-centered, overconfident, so driven to meet the goals you've set that you lose sight of the big picture. And you know what? Each of you have a point. You could be bringing out the best in each other, but instead you waste your energy on silly disagreements. So stop the fighting. Throw your attention towards what you love about your lover. And laugh a little. Because once you two start laughing together, you can survive anything.