You're the kind of person who's driving through life looking in the rearview mirror. Yeah, your past isn't ideal. People haven't always treated you as kindly as they could have, and your parents were anything but supportive.
But why do you marinate in your misery? That victim label doesn't flatter you, you know. You're such a vital, vibrant soul; don't let your sunshine be dimmed by your rage -- and yes, rage is what it is, masquerading as hurt. Now, speaking of dim, it is true you've chosen a rather murky lover. Serious where you are lighthearted, weighty and solid where you can be impetuous and moving in too many directions. Your lover pulls out your best qualities simply by acting as a reality check. Yet your disparities trouble you. You don't feel as connected, or as comfortable as you could. The two of you can't seem to relax together into something sweet and easy. But if you can find a way to unload some of your emotional baggage, to become more comfortable in your own skin, you'll find more ease in your pairing.