You chose yourself such a sweet-natured lover, didn't you? Kindhearted, loving, lovable. Your family approves, your friends are big fans, everyone tells you how lucky you are to have landed this fine fish.
So why can't you just relax and enjoy yourself? The unease you feel is so beneath the surface, almost unconscious, that you can't put your finger on it. Everything looks great on paper. You share so many qualities, including a certain integrity, a desire to be genuinely good and helpful to others. Why is it you can't seem to connect? Your relationship feels forced, strained. You struggle to make conversation. You just can't relax. What you fear in your heart of hearts is, unfortunately, the case -- this is not a love that will ever run smoothly. You can never relax into easy contentment. The fundamental problems you've already glimpsed will not dissipate. But there is much to draw you together. Remember what originally attracted you to your lover, including that expansive sense of humor.