The tension between you and your lover can be thick enough to cut with a knife, painful enough to make you want to scream. The problems you're experiencing can be laid handily at the doors of your very different natures. You want structure and stability -- you want to know where your relationship is going, you want to know you can count on a date for the movies and quiet dinners at home.
But the mate you've chosen is anything but the stay-by-the-fire type. Instead, your sweetie wants to socialize eight days a week. You lack substantive time alone enjoying your pairing, and are either dragged along to events you'd rather not patronize or left at home, wondering what's going on when you're not around to supervise.The answer is to let go a little. What was that old saying about if you love something, set it free? Love is not a puppy you can squeeze or a document you can pore over. It is unpredictable and fierce, by turns sweet and biting. Savor both sides of your love relationship. Do not ask for more than your lover can give, and ironically, you'll find you get a lot more.