It's a spicy pairing you've grabbed hold of, but not an easy one. Both you and your mate are movers and shakers, driven to do and see and control. But it's that last bit that keeps things tense -- control.
Who has it? Who wants it? It's likely that you've grabbed the helm, but that your lover fights you all the way. It's all for naught because you always win. But the victory doesn't give you peace, doesn't bring the two of you closer. As you grow more tired of a lover who'll let you crush their desires, your mate gets weary of being stifled all the time. Worst case scenario? Your lover may already be searching for another to take your place.You simply must let go a little. It is possible, if you vow to do so and then don't let yourself off the hook. Let your mate hold sway in decisions both unimportant and major -- you can trust in the correctness of the decisions, because you have found someone who is both intelligent and who is considering the best path for both of you. If you can stop squeezing so hard, your mate will stop fighting you -- and wouldn't a little peace be a great change?