First, the bad news: You and your partner will never be one of those cooing couples who make others envy their bond. Instead, you're more like spitting, clawing cats. You, in particular, want to bring your lover to heel and control their every move and decision.
You can be possessive and jealous, demanding every bit of your mate's attention. It's unattractive, this power play. It lowers you in your lover's eyes. But since you're controlled by unconscious urges, you can't resist. In social settings you can be overbearing -- you might grab your mate harder than is needed, holding on with all your might. But the harder you grasp and squeeze, the more your lover fights back.Which brings us to the good news: You've finally chosen someone who'll put up a fight. No timid lover this, your battling egoist matches you blow for blow. And that's what's going to make for an exciting, but not an easy life. You won't ever be able to relax with one another and fully let down your guard -- but who wants to be totally comfortable, when being this unnerved and on your toes makes for such blinding passion?