Your mate sets your alarm bells ringing. You like to have everything nailed down, i's dotted, t's crossed, your thumb firmly on the throttle of your destiny. But this time you've chosen one who can't be pinned that easily.
Your lover is made of more fluid stuff, material that'll take the shape of whatever it's in but will just as quickly move on. Your sweetie may not show up for dates, or will be late for appointments. It often seems as if the two of you are at cross-purposes, as if one of you is ready to move closer while the other one is seeking space.On the other hand, you always find your lover interesting, if sometimes annoying. What you need to conquer the dark side of your pairing is loads and loads of patience. You can't expect your lover to be as controlled and on-task is you -- you must learn to give your mate a bit of a break, not insist your difficult standards be maintained. Stop demanding every second be accounted for; try to relax a little and take on a bit of your lover's ease. You'll find yourself all the better for it.