Do you two have trouble walking a mile in each other's moccasins? Is it difficult for either of you to view things from your partner's perspective? In arguments as well as in day-to-day life, are you both so attached to your own points of view that you just can't comprehend where your sweetie is coming from?If you answered 'yes' to any of the above questions, it may be because the two of you lack any oppositions between you.
An opposition is a somewhat stressful planetary connection, but it does something very important: It provides a wider perspective than just your own. Oppositions bring awareness of The Other and the ability to see things from your partner's point of view.Not being 'in opposition' to your lover might sound like a good thing, but look at it this way: When there are no oppositions present between you, it's like you're each going in your own direction, but your paths don't align. They don't cross and they don't run parallel. You're each simply moving along on your own track, one that's noticeably unrelated to your partner's.You each think you know the other, but if you took a test on each other's likes and dislikes, you probably wouldn't do as well as you think. There's a basic inability for either of you to look across the table at the other and see the person who's actually sitting there; you both have a strong tendency to view the other through your own looking glass, which distorts the picture. Finding the balance between you will require a lot of awareness and honesty on both your parts -- difficult, but not impossible.