There's an uncomfortable yin-yang action in your pairing, and sometimes it's difficult to take. Your mate is all driving force, energy and action. But you, like the water that rules your planet, tend to drift and dream, taking the shape of whatever vessel holds you.
So here you are, with this lover, doing what you're asked and going where you're told. But have you thought carefully about where you're going? Is there a plan? Or are you just floating along on the path of least resistance, taking what's handed to you simply because it's easier than pursuing something?It's not that your mate means to squelch you so thoroughly, it's just that you're such a limp noodle. Who can tell what you want and give it to you when you're apt to shrug and go along with the plans, any plans? You must resist your temptation to live in a dream world, you must think concretely and carefully about what you want: from life, from this relationship. Then, start asserting yourself. It's uncomfortable for you -- but no less uncomfy than ending up in a second-class relationship simply because you were too lazy to mold it to your liking.