Been snooping, have we? Surreptitiously trying to get a glance of computer screens, checking numbers in cell phones? There's a core of mistrust at the heart of your relationship, and it's making waves.
If feels as though the two of you may be pulling apart, as if there are obstacles between you. When you lie down to sleep at night, your thoughts are restless, suspicious; when you hold your lover tight you are possessed with an animalistic desire to hold and bite and devour. You are addicted to the highs and lows of your relationship, and you need your fix.Will it make you feel better to hear that much of the tension is caused by your own watchful filtering of events? Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, and all your tense questioning and abrupt, off-putting declarations brings more energy to certain situations than is reasonable. Try to stay focused on the other areas of your life -- work, family, friends. Calming your compulsion to control your lover is all about draining away some of the anxiety. Let go, just a little. There is a peace in relaxing your grip.