You've often chosen inappropriate partners, ignoring such stumbling blocks as a mismatch of values and beliefs or a wide gap in age. And, once again, you find yourself with someone very different than yourself. Yet you don't see it.
You hide your head in the sand, preferring to believe in your lover's mythical infallibility rather than seeing things as they really are. Are there problems you've been ignoring? Are there issues just under the surface? It's easier for you to live in a fantasy than deal with reality, but this time that little trick's not going to work for you. And the crutches you typically utilize won't work, either.The key for you at this time involves carefully examining your relationship and your own motives for being where you are. Is there something you're avoiding by pouring energy into your relationship? Is there a responsibility you're not tending to? Once you know your own motivations, you can more carefully suss out your lover's -- and bring your rather insubstantial pairing into a place that's more solid, real, and dependable. There is a relationship waiting for you on the other side of this adjustment period; don't lose heart and give up on it.