You certainly chose a partner who's a match for you, and that's a good thing, ultimately -- it just drives you nuts is all. It feels like you and your lover have difficulty understanding each other, particularly around emotional issues. And it's funny how a lot of things -- dishes, who's buying dinner, where you're going on vacation -- turn into an emotional issue with the pair of you.
You plow through life with acumen and logic, determined to make sense of the world in front of you. Your partner, on the other hand, is more of a feeler than a thinker, and tends to overindulge your moods and notions. The result? You sometimes view your partner with something more akin to contempt than adoration, and neither one of you feels an easy connection with each other. The cure is better communication, and since you are the Great Communicator, you're well-placed for the task. If you want to stay in this relationship, it's up to you to bridge the gap. Stop finding fault with your partner; instead, find things to love and admire. The more you give the more you'll get.