You've never been a model of serene stability, but sometimes your jitters are near-constant. Have you been sleeping poorly? Eating junk food, or almost nothing at all?
Craving cigarettes and other illicit substances? And hey, how are those dreams? It's true; your love life's been going downhill for some time, and there's a reason: You chose yourself a lover who can meet you eye-to-eye intellectually, but who is a bit chilly. Whereas you reach out to the world with a rather playful and impish warmth, your lover is rather stern. If you were in a sitcom, you'd be the bratty little brother and your sweetie would be the grouchy dad in the La-Z-Boy.On the plus side, your lover provides you with plenty of stimulation on every level. Much is demanded of you, and you've had to work hard to deliver. This has polished you, like a rock eroded by a powerful river. No one ever said growth was fun! And grow you have, though you remain insecure of where your relationship is going. Try to relax a bit, and just enjoy the ride. You're well-placed for the future if you can engage in meaningful communication.